Tips on how to keep your relationship sexy without sex!

We’ve got a few tips on how to make a special occasion a little more romantic and a little less conventional. Lock the doors, draw the curtains and try out a couple of our sexy games, or go outside for a walk listening to our sexy playlist, either way; sex doesn’t always have to be a part of it!

1. The five things game
Write down five things you’d like to do with each other and five sexy phrases you love to hear. Then take turns to do each thing while saying one phrase. For example:
If one partner wrote down that they’d love a sensual back massage and one of their sexy phrases is “Give me some sugar”, then the other partner should give them the massage while saying the phrase as sultry as they can.

2. Truth or Dare
Each person writes down five questions they would love their partner to answer and five dares they’d love to see them do on sheets of paper and fold them up. Then take turns choosing either truth or dare.

3. Go for a walk
There’s nothing like spending a little alone time together, outdoors; even on the busy streets of Lagos. You can both take a little road trip to a park, landmark or elsewhere and sit down together, chat and watch the sunset. There’s no better environment to learn a lot more about each other.

4. Candlelit dinner
Why not organise a nice, romantic candlelit dinner for you and your partner. The effort you put into it alone will definitely send leave your partner smitten.

5. Sexy playlist
Why not create a music playlist of all your favourite love songs for your partner to listen to. It’ll be sure to bring up feelings of passion in them!

6. Go dancing
With dance styles like Salsa, Zouk and Tarraxinha, why not? This will be a classic opportunity for you to get close, literally, to your partner, and as your skin touches and breaths fall in sync, dance lessons is sure to provoke feelings either of youmay have never felt before!

7. Sexy play with a deck of cards
Have a deck of playing cards ready and take turns in choosing one card. If you choose spades you get a neck and shoulder massage, if you choose clubs you get to be kissed, if diamonds, you get a back massage, if hearts you get to be fed strawberries. The number of the card equals the length of the experience in seconds. The higher the number, the longer the turn!